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SPROUT FILM FESTIVAL FOCUSES ON DEVELOPMENTAL DISABILITIES

The 10th annual Sprout Film Festival will take place this year from Friday April 27 to Sunday April 29th, 2012 at the Metropolitan Museum of Art.  The film festival will be showing 53 films related to the field of developmental and intellectual disabilities.  By presenting films of artistry by talented film makers, the festival wants to provide accurate portrayals of people with disabilities.  The goal is to present enlightening and enjoyable works of art which will help break down stereotypes and promote a greater acceptance of the differences and an acceptance of similarities.

Visit www.sproutfilmfestival.org to get more information and a film schedule.

 

NYC PRIVATE SCHOOLS REJECTION BLUES

     Now that the NYC private school acceptance and rejection letters have been mailed out, some parents are thrilled and relieved and some are sorely disappointed.  While some children are basking in their parents’ approval, others no doubt feel that they have let their parents down.  Parents need to be aware that children are highly sensitive to their parents’ moods and are listening even when they don’t seem to be.
     It is important for parents to be especially loving, accepting and encouraging at this time and to be alert to any unusual signs of stress in their children.  If a child expresses any fears about their schools (don’t forget they’ve been coached, tested, interviewed) they should be reassured that they will go to a good school which they’ll love.
     And they probably will love the school they go to.  In addition, they may ultimately do even better academically than they would  in a more selective school.  There is a  body of research called the Big Fish Little Pond Effect which has shown that some children in very selective educational placements often have less academic self esteem and lower academic achievement than similar children in less competitive educational settings. In short, it’s better to be a Big Fish in a Small Pond than a Small Fish in a Big Pond.  
     Given the NYC private school scene, it's more important than ever to work with an educational consultant who can help you maximize the chances for acceptance into your desired school but who can also steer you towards other schools where your child can thrive.  This is especially true if there is any kind of learning or behavior issue which may be a red flag at some schools.  To get more information, contact toby@ParentConfidante School Success Consulting.

 

Does My Child Have A.D.D.?

A recent article highlights the importance of environmental factors when diagnosing and treating children with Attention Deficit Disorder (A.D.D.).  Dr. L. Alan Sroufe (NY Times, 1/29/12) wrote a comprehensive article on the overuse of drugs in the treatment of A.D.D. He takes issue with the assumption that there is a "brain deficit" in children who have attention difficulties and points out that the improvement in attention fades over time and that all people benefit from stimulant medication when focusing on more rote tasks.  His basic point, is that society is overlooking environmental influences in the rush to medicate.  For instance, emotional problems such as depression, turmoil at home, lack of social support, and ineffective parenting can produce behavior and attention problems  and these factors are not addressed in the rush to medication.

Many of Dr.Sroufe's observations were confirmed in my practice as a school psychologist.  I found ADHD becoming an increasingly frequent diagnosis with medication as the primary recommendation.  However, I  knew from working with the student that there were other, sometimes more pressing factors such as family distress or parenting disagreement.  It was much easier to go the path of medication than tangle with the difficult task of understanding the family dynamics and making changes.

That being said, there were many instances when medication was crucial and effective.  The child learned, felt better about himself because he wasn't constantly being redirected and gained socially as well.  Even if it's true that the effect of the medication fades after three years, three years is a long time, and the benefits could improve that child's life forever.

One reason I became an educational consultant and started ParentConfidante School Success Consulting is that many of the evaluations I read were incomplete and didn't consider all factors.  In my work, I refer parents to highly skilled professionals whose assessments are reliable and give a complete picture of the child and what would be helpful. An accurate diagnosis is crucial if the child is to make lasting progress. To help your child make the positive steps she deserves contact me at 646-300-1881.

 

 

 

 

 

Changing the Diagnostic Criteria for Autism and Asperger Syndrome

The American Psychiatric Association is reassessing the diagnostic criteria for autistic and the proposed changes, as described in the NY Times article of Jan. 20,2012, may exclude many people who are now diagnosed as having Autism, Asperger Syndrome or Pervasive Developmental Disorder-Not Otherwise Specified (P.D.D.-N.O.S).  These diagnoses would be consolidated under one category - Autism Spectrum  Disorder - eliminating the Asperger's and PDD-NOS categories.  While the new criteria will have little impact on the diagnosis of youngsters who are "classically autistic" - those who have severe limitations in their cognitive and social functioning- there may well be an impact on those youngsters who are cognitively able but have a social disability.

Parents are understandably concerned given that mandated services (IEP) are often dependent on a diagnosis.  It will be important to see how the changes  will ultimately affect the delivery of services, but the attempt to clarify diagnosis is an important and needed undertaking. In the past, there has been a good deal of confusion especially regarding the identification of Asperger Syndrome - does every child who prefers to play alone have Asperger's and are deficits in social intreraction the main determinant?  In fact, there are other determining factors for a classification of Asperger Syndrome and many children who fall within this group need continued support.

There was some concern when it was first divulged that there would be a consolidation in criteria with Asperger's eliminated, because Asperger Syndrome, properly diagnosed, is distinct from classical autism and descriptive.  It will be important, in the tightening up of this diagnostic category, that those who need services continue to receive them.  While these youngsters are cognitively able, their narrow interests, perseverative behavior, and social incapacity makes it very difficult from them to succeed without support.

 

 

Homework Hints: Taking the Power Struggle Out of Studying

As kids return to school, there is already anxiety about homework and parents are already rehearsing the tried, but maybe untrue, advice regarding homework and studying – find one place to study, study material until you master it, don’t move on to more complex material until you know the basics, etc.  In addition, parents do their own homework to make sure that a teacher’s teaching style matches their children’s style of learning.   However, as pointed out by Benedict Casey (NY Times, 9/6/10) there is research which points to some counter-intuitive advice that really makes a difference. 

* VARYING THE STUDY PLACE is important for retention.  So instead of insisting that Johnny do all of his homework in his room, having hims also study in the kitchen or den is beneficial because the brain makes multiple associations with the material studied. 

*VARYING THE MATERIAL STUDIED in a single sitting also makes a difference.  For instance, it’s a good idea to alternate between studying vocabulary words and working on an essay. 

*VARYING THE MATH PROBLEMS IN AN ASSIGNMENT.  Rather than concentrating on one problem set, mixing up the assignment forces the brain to really learn the material rather than a set approach.  This is important in studying for a test.  Mix up the problems when studying. 

*SELF-TESTING AS A MEANS OF LEARNING THE MATERIAL.  Cognitive scientists see practice tests and quizzes as a tool of learning since the harder it is to learn something, the harder it is to forget it.  Quizzing your student in the living room on material learned in the den is a good idea. 

*There is no empirical evidence that a certain teaching style is better for children than others.  Good teachers can teach any child by recognizing those who need visual reinforcement and those who can learn best from oral presentation.  A mixed style of delivery benefits all students. 

I always believe that if something isn’t broken, why fix it.  So if your child’s study habits are working for her, just leave it.  But, if you can’t get her to stay in her room, stick to one subject at a time or learn the material in one sitting, that's OK.  She may just do better in the long run.

 

 

 

 

 

Does Attending Stuyvesant Make A Difference?

Each year thousands of students anxiously wait to see if they have been accepted to selective public high schools in NYC and throughout the nation.  There has always been a debate about how much a difference attending such a school really makes.  Some people feel that attending a school of motivated, high functioning students is crucial.  Other people state that the high achievers who attend these schools would do well no matter where went and in fact have better odds of getting into an Ivy League College from a less competetive school.

 A recent study, “Exam High Schools and Academic Achievement:Evidence from New York City”, by Roland G. Fryer Jr. and Will Dobbie, seems to settle the controversy.  They found that there is essentially no stubstantial benefit in attending an exam school in either SAT scores or college enrollment.  However, there was one important exception: the borderline student benefited by taking higher level courses and graduating from high school with a more advanced diploma than they would in a mainstream school.

This is an important finding in that it highlights the importance of the school the bright, unmotivated student attends.  If that student is surrounded with students who are focused and highly motivated to succeed, it rubs off.  They are influenced by the higher expectations of their peers and work more to their potential.  In choosing a school for this student, the results of this study must be considered.  ParentConfidante School Success Consulting is expert at looking at the individual student and helping him apply and be accepted by the right school.