I recently attended an open house at the Churchill School that was amazingly crowded with New York parents looking for an opening in a Manhattan Middle or High School. Churchill School made it clear that there were very few spots available but that didn't keep the parents from asking very thoughtful, knowledgeable questions and appearing hopeful. They were obviously hoping that their child would be the lucky one to get that opening in the 6th or 9th grade and hoping that more Manhattan parents would be transfered to San Francisco so another spot was available. When asked where else their children were applying, some parents mentioned Winston Prep and boarding schools for children with special needs (Landmark, Eagle Hill), but all bemoaned the dearth of High Schools in NYC for children who continue to need specialized instruction and organizational support.
It is surprising that there are so few secondary special needs schools in NYC. I guess the hope is that most students will be able to thrive in mainstream schools if they get the help they need in the early grades. However, the demands in Manhattan, Brooklyn, Riverdale, and Westchester high schools are intensive and children with learning disabilities often need continued support and accommodations. Children with special needs have to work hard to compensate for their difficulties and they can be easily discouraged if the demands are overwhelming. Although there are some non-special ed private schools that offer support programs, it may not be enough and it's no wonder that parents are concerned.
Recognizing the need, Aaron Academy and Mary McDowell Friends School have recently started high schools as an extension of their elementary schools. These are welcome additions. However, it seems that more is needed - what an entrepreneurial as well as educational opportunity!
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